My friend and I are close, and we've known each other for 4 years, but he keeps trying to get me to let him lick me "down below" and I say no but he doesn't leave me alone. What can I do to make him stop making me uncomfortable? He always says it would be funny and I won't get an STD, but I don't want to and we keep getting angry at each other. Please help!
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First, a confession.
Having a guy go down on you can be freaking wonderful. However, there are definitely those guys who need a little extra help in the What Not to Do department. Here are my tips for what your dude should stop doing so you can both have a better time doing one of the best things ever. Attacking our clit like it wronged you. That's the only place I'll target! There's no way this plan could go wrong. Listen, the vulva and vagina are an amusement park with, like, 60 rides.
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